My friend Mustang and I have argued the worthiness of pop songs over the years. We don't actually like disagreeing. We have more fun sharing guilty pleasure such as Madonna's "Don't Cry for Me Argentina (Dance Remix)." One of our biggest disagreements was over the British pop star Craig David's song "I'm Walking Away." I lived in England when it was popular. Popular isn't a strong enough word, ubiquitous is a better term. It made me want to shout at cars, but Mustang loved it. If anything, he had not heard it enough since C. David was not the sensation in Iowa that he was in the UK.
As of today, put Anders in the Craig David camp because he's walking away. He even out-walked Anna today, which she says is not hard. Anders has walked for some time, but his walking has always come with many caveats. If it's the first Tuesday after the Vernal Equinox and he is on uneven ground of a Kentucky bluegrass mix, then he can take as many as 73 steps. No more. He has realize the benefit of walking. It's really fun to watch him wobble around the house at will, all the time.
We have been waiting for this day for a long time. We have seen other babies who are Anders' contemporaries and younger than him walk while we waited with bated breath. I suppose this is the season of waiting.
We have been waiting for spring as well. The past week has reminded me of "spring" back home. Temperatures in the 40s, gray skies, strong winds, and intermittent rain. In many ways April was the worst month in Iowa because you were so close to spring, but you were not there yet by any means. We have so many buds and flowers queuing to explode that it looks like the doors outside a Best Buy the morning after Thanksgiving. I think tomorrow will be a big day for spring with temps in the 70s and rain.
Tomorrow we will have lived in our house, The Palace of West Hills, for five years. This house has been one of the best parts of our time in Athens. I love grilling on the high deck that blends into the trees. I love seeing the deer sitting in the brush. I like watching the people walk their dogs in the berm in front our house. I have enjoyed living next door to Roger...most of the time. I have enjoyed playing mad botanist by trying to get various flowers to grow in our front yard, a task made much easier by a Jan. 09 ice storm that killed an evergreen tree Anna and I both hated. I also love the spring day when the blooms appear on tree outside our bedroom window.
Back to Anders...His vocabulary grows significantly each day. Now he's saying "Go!" He says: nose, ears, teeth, mouth, two, yellow, blue, doggy, cookie, and a bunch of other new words that I cannot remember.
My crazy theory for his walking is that I dressed him for success last week. Just like the haircut was an impetus to walk more and talk more, putting him in a collared polo shirt really seemed to amp up the walking and talking. So the lesson here is that if your child is not meeting developmental milestones as fast as you would like, give them a haircut and a spiffy outfit.
Anders remains quite a hit around town. Yesterday, a Chinese student remarked as he walked by "very cute." A drunk girl said, "Ohmygawd, he is SOO cute! Awwh!" One of our neighbors up on Elizabeth Street, who has a dog named Lucy that makes Anders go nuts, remarked at how blue his eyes are. And a black lab walked up to Anders and sniffed him on West State Street on our walk home.
It's been nice to have a weekend at home. I was in Dallas last weekend, where I saw that spring is more than a rumor, and I will be in Houston next weekend on my job quest. I went to Texas one time in my first 31 years, but I will have been three times in the past two months.
Dealey Plaza is chilling. It looks just like you expect it to look having seen the Zapruder Film hundreds of times. It's kind of hard to find, even with a map. I guess the chamber of commerce isn't buying a lot of signage that says, "Come to Dallas, we killed Kennedy!"
Uncle Josh visited last week. Anders put him through the paces.
I'm sure I'm forgetting some stuff. I delayed this entry for a while because I hadn't done one in a while, because Dan Seeley hadn't made a harassing phone call, and because I had a feeling that I was close to being able to announce Anders as a walker. I think my next post might discuss Anders the Climber, stay tuned...